birthday card etiquette

had to sign a birthday card today and was at odds at what to do. do i sign wyatt's name or do i leave it off. i left it off. but somehow i feel like that was some sort of betrayal. that in some way by not adding his name it made him less?? idk the next card i just signed with the keith family and that is probably how i will sign all cards from here on out. but it just made me sad.:(

found this quote on fb and liked the end.......

take a chance and never let go~risk everything ... lose nothing~don't worry about anything anymore~cry in the rain and speak out loud~say what you want and love who you want~be yourself and not what people want to see~NEVER blame anyone if you get hurt~Because you took the risk and you decided it was worthwhile~

i took the risk and it was totally worthwhile and i would do it again.

dear wyatt,
mommy misses you so much sweet boy. i hope you know you are thought of every day. even more so we i am with you brother and sister because they would have been so great with you. and i hate that you are not here to love and squeeze on. i wish you could be piled into bed with us at night watching movies and being silly. i can't wait until we are reunited some day. i love you, i love you, i love you.
xoxo,
mommy